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What to do if the child cries in school

by Fahid Safdar
What to do if the child cries in school

What to do if the child cries in school? Due to the anxiety and unwillingness to separate from their parents when they first arrived in an unfamiliar environment, many children show unwillingness to go to school or even cry when school starts, especially kindergarten children. What to do if the child cries in school?

How should parents deal with children crying in school?

1-Crying child

Leaving their parents to face strangers, parents must understand the child’s reaction. The child cries too much in kindergarten during the day. When returning home at night, he must drink more light saltwater to replenish his physical strength and let the child go to bed early and get up early and get enough sleep 9-10 hours.

2-Crying and Making Noise

Music can be used to soothe children’s excited emotions, and more relaxing and cheerful songs can be played to the children, which has a certain effect on treating children’s irritable emotions.

3- Crying children only after a few days

When the child is not interested in kindergarten life, parents can prepare some exclusive supplies for the child, such as their own schoolbags, water cups, or even one or two favorite toys, as the child’s emotional sustenance, in the child’s unfamiliar environment, teachers, and classmates. At the beginning, it played a role of familiarity and warm emotional comfort.

What should parents do if their children are distressed at school?

The last thing parents should do: Reluctant to give up their children! Some parents love their children, and they cry when they see their children cry, or turn their heads three times after sending their children. In fact, this will make the children feel that going to kindergarten means Separation of family members will aggravate children’s anxiety.

How should kindergarten teachers respond to the crying of savage impulsive children?

Such children cry very loudly. The crying is often accompanied by screaming, crying and screaming, sometimes rolling on the ground. Most of these children are outgoing, self-willed and doting children at home. Sudden changes in the environment make them feel very uncomfortable when they leave the “good care” parents, so they even “punch and kick” their teachers often.

  1. Children who are crying and crying can have a teacher temporarily take away from the group, so as not to cause an emotional impact on other children.
  2. Attract them with fun toys. The teacher said to himself “It’s fun” while playing.
  3. When the mood stabilizes a little, remind further requirements, such as: “If you don’t cry, we will go outside to play”, etc., but the teacher’s promise to the child must be realistic, and the child must do what he promises, otherwise the child Will no longer believe in you.
  4. When the teacher is in pain, tell the child that he is in pain immediately and ask the child to rub it for himself. This can distract the child, and also make the child know that this method is wrong.
  5. Recognize in time. Give the child a sticker to reward the child when he leaves the kindergarten and agree to come back to the kindergarten tomorrow.

What is the reason why children cry in school?

1.Physiological problems. 

Different from simple emotional problems that are generally believed, physical pain can also cause babies to cry. For example, when they have a cold, fever, or stomach upset, the baby will cry because of pain and sadness.

2. Living habits are disrupted. 

The baby of 2 to 3 years old is very sensitive. At this time, the baby has established a relatively fixed set of living habits and life procedures, and going to kindergarten suddenly disrupts his original familiar life procedures, and the new life procedures are quite different from the original ones. Goodbye, this makes the baby feel scared and upset, so he will cry.

3. Not adapt to Unfamiliar Environment

Suddenly from a familiar environment to a place that he is completely unfamiliar with, the baby cannot feel safe about the things around him, and he does not know how to get along with the people around him, and he does not know what to do and how to do, which results in huge Psychological pressure, and cry to vent their fears.

4. Produce Frustration

The baby is cared for and taken care of by the stars at home. The adults in the family are all around him, but when it comes to kindergarten, it is no longer the only one. The teacher should take care of many children at the same time, and will not pay special attention to him. The baby can be sensitive. Perceive the difference in various “treatments”, which leads to frustration.

How to prevent children’s school anxiety in advance

Parents can communicate with their children in a relaxed situation, open their hearts, do not put pressure on the children, and let the children clarify the reasons for anxiety, fear, and crying through chat. As a parent, you can prevent school anxiety in advance.

In the days approaching the beginning of school, without arranging time-consuming and labor-intensive entertainment activities, you can gradually move from a state of casual play to a state of learning, and regain your good habits in school. You can discuss your plans for the new semester with your child. You don’t need to finish the talk at a time, you can take some daily conversation opportunities, and the time to walk together, to intervene in these topics, so that you can also achieve a kind of “heart-relief” psychological suggestion effect.

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